When and How to Talk to Your Spouse Before Divorce

When and How to Talk to Your Spouse Before Divorce

When and How to Talk to Your Spouse Before Divorce When we face life’s most difficult moments, like deciding to talk to your spouse before divorce, we often find ourselves standing at a crossroads of tremendous change.  Over the years, I’ve learned so much from my work on divorce cases about how to embark on your divorce journey.  For example,…

Documents Needed for Child Custody Cases:  Essential Guide

Documents Needed for Child Custody Cases: Essential Guide

Essential Documents Needed for Child Custody Cases Understanding the documents needed for child custody cases can feel overwhelming at first. When facing a child custody case, having the right documentation can significantly impact the court’s decision about your child’s future. The court’s primary consideration is always the child’s best interests, and proper documentation helps demonstrate how those interests will be…

Mediation in High-Conflict Divorces

Mediation in High-Conflict Divorces

Can Mediation Be Effective in High-Conflict Divorce Angela’s story resonated with many because it revealed a painful truth about mediation in high-conflict divorces.  Although often praised as a peaceful and cost-effective way to resolve divorce disputes, it can become a dangerous trap when one partner is a narcissist. While mediation can be effective for many couples, it is not a…

Mediation With A Narcissistic Spouse-It’s a Minefield​

Mediation With A Narcissistic Spouse-It’s a Minefield​

Mediation With A Narcissistic Spouse-It’s a Minefield Is mediation a tool for compromise—or a weapon for manipulators? Uncover the hidden dynamics of narcissistic abuse in family law disputes, and learn how to arm yourself with knowledge before stepping into the ring.  In this blog article we will explore the impact of participating in mediation with a narcissistic spouse. The Push…

High-Conflict Child Custody:  Top Causes You Should Know

High-Conflict Child Custody: Top Causes You Should Know

High Conflict Child Custody Causes Child custody disputes are stressful. They can bring out the best and the worst in people. Ideally, when parents separate, they find a way to co-parent that keeps their child at the center. But in reality, that’s not always what happens. Instead of working together, some parents end up locked in an endless battle, unable—or…

Why Judges Order Supervised Visitation in Child Custody

Why Judges Order Supervised Visitation in Child Custody

Why Judges Order Supervised Visitation Imagine being told you can only see your child under the watchful eye of a supervisor. For many parents, this reality is both heartbreaking and confusing. But supervised visitation isn’t about punishment—it’s about protection. In child custody cases, judges often face difficult decisions to ensure the child’s safety and well-being. One of those decisions is…

Co-Parenting with a Narcissist Who Always Has to Be the Hero

Co-Parenting with a Narcissist Who Always Has to Be the Hero

Jessica’s Story: Co-Parenting With a Narcissist That Always Has to Be a Hero Introduction: When Co-Parenting Feels Like a Competition You Didn’t Sign Up for Co-parenting with a narcissist isn’t just exhausting—it’s a relentless game of one-upmanship. Every holiday, school event, or bedtime call becomes a stage for your ex to shine as the “hero parent,” leaving you scrambling to…

Combative Co-Parent:  Shifting from Reactive to Proactive Communication

Combative Co-Parent: Shifting from Reactive to Proactive Communication

Shifting from Reactive to Proactive Co-parenting with a combative ex can feel like navigating a minefield—every conversation has the potential to explode into conflict. Simple discussions about schedules or decisions turn into power struggles, and attempts at cooperation often dissolve into frustration. When communication is consistently tense, it’s easy to feel drained, defensive and stuck in a never-ending cycle of…

How to Handle a Controlling Co-Parent

How to Handle a Controlling Co-Parent

HOW TO HANDLE A CONTROLLING CO-PARENT Co-parenting is challenging, even in the best circumstances. When one parent is overly controlling, it becomes even harder to manage. A controlling co-parent may dictate schedules, undermine the other parent’s authority, or use manipulation to influence decisions about the child. This behavior creates tension between parents and can harm the child’s emotional well-being.  …

Facing Divorce with a Covert Narcissist Spouse

Facing Divorce with a Covert Narcissist Spouse

Introduction In this blog post, we will explore facing divorce with a covert narcissist spouse. Divorce is challenging enough without having to deal with a divorce involving a vulnerable or covert narcissist. Understanding behaviors and characteristics can provide valuable insights and help you more successfully navigate your divorce. Also, you can protect yourself during this difficult time. Understanding Vulnerable (Covert)…